Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Aphidnator

The magic "pressure wash the heck out of your hibiscus buds" technique to get the aphids to go away worked like a charm! One of the blooms opened up today and two others are on their way.


On another note, now I'm on to trying to find the best care for my newly purchased orchid from IKEA. The orchid is a phalaenopsis. This means nothing to me besides the fact that I read up online how I'm supposed to water it. Apparently you let it dry out and then submerge in water?
Any ideas on this? As soon as I get to the new house I'm going to purchase both orchid and hibiscus food since our northern MN weather doesn't exactly nurture these tropical plants and their preferred habitat. What the heck will I do when it comes to winter?!

One more gardening bit. I grew peas from seed this year. I again started the seedlings in the sun room, with the chlorine filled air. I think that actually did these peas some good, I had vines growing just after about a month! Anyways, I picked the first pea pod off today. I don't eat peas, so I let my brother have half and mom have half, they said it was good! Yay pea pods! They're so dang cute.

I'm almost done packing and I went into major cleaning mode last night. It seems that 9pm is the best time for me to be the most productive. I stripped all the sheets and blankets and down comforter on my bed, took the pillow cases off, and WASHED my pillows in the washer. My mom threw them in the dryer this morning. They came out pretty darn clean! It probably helps that I used about 4x the recommended amount of bleach. Anyways, I went to grab them out of the shower, and they were soaking wet. As was the bottom of the dryer, with about a half of an inch of water in it. Two things rang through my mind: 1. Is an electrical appliance such as the dryer, supposed to have a big puddle of water on it and 2. How the heck do I get these to dry? So I hung them on the lines outside. Of course it started to rain. I'm just going to let them air dry and then maybe stick them in the dryer to fluff them up.

Monday, July 27, 2009

Buying a Home

Top Ten Pieces of advice that are associated with buying your first home

Back in April, I decided to seriously pursue home buying as I decided I'm happy living back in my home city, have a pretty good stable job, and didn't want to waste anymore money on rent. I also wanted to be living on my own, not under the roof of my parents. Not that I dislike them or anything, just that I'm used to being so independent, and after 4 years of independence, it was hard to live back at home.

So, I searched, and toured, and looked online, and got daily updates. Here's my advice for you:

1. Start saving your money. You're going to need lots of it. Not just for a down payment, for eighty billion other things as well. I estimate about 8% of the cost of your home if you are doing a FHA loan with 3.5% down.

2. Decide what you're looking for and what you can afford. You're going to get too overwhelmed if you waste your time at looking for something you can afford. Your realtor can help you set "Wants" and "needs" as well as a location. You may be browsing and find a nice hour for less than 100k, but really, are you going to want to live in the slum trash of the city? Probably not. Which brings me to my next point.

3. Find a really good Realtor. One that is going to work for you. If you can find one with a personal connection, even better. If you're a buyer with nothing to sell, realtors cost nothing to you for just searching for houses. Actually buying a house, that's another story with your closing costs. In my case, my realtor was friends with my parents. She was excellent! I made a list of houses I wanted to see. She told me which ones would be a waste of my time (her experience shone through, she had been in some of the houses before). We met and searched everything that was with in my price range.

4. Don't act on dime, don't settle for less, and weigh all the factors. I always say that the very first house I looked at, long before I was set on buying one, was the house I should have bought. It was completely redone inside and out, had spacious bedrooms, a garage, perfect sized yard, and was inside my price limit. It was in the west end, but not a terrible part of town. Not exactly my ideal location, but still doable. But, I'm now happier living in the east end of town and feel more secure.

5. Look at the potential--but don't overestimate what you're actually going to be capable of doing. Obviously if this is your first home you probably don't have $20k to do an overhaul on the bathroom that is in terrible condition.

6. Consider the maintenance of the house and the yard. If you live in an area like I do, where we get massive amounts of snow, you probably don't want a driveway that is half a block long, nor do you want to be in a back alley that is the last to get plowed. The house I purchased is on a snow emergency route, which is great because it means my road is the first to get plowed when it snows. It also means the massive amount of snow that was on this snow emergency route will be dumped in my driveway. Think about the basic maintenance as well--will you need to get your oil tank filled? Will your house need a new roof in the next couple of years? Are there going to be any major street/road construction to which you will be subject to assessments?

7. My mom told me she heard from a radio talk show to "stalk" the neighborhood you are going to buy a house in. I thought this sounded ridiculous, until I looked at a very cute an adorable house with the little doll house charm and a gorgeous kitchen--with two GIANT Great Danes that looked in the upper level window from the neighbors' yard. They may be friendly animals, but the incessant bark is probably not the thing I want as a neighbor. I drove past this house multiple times, (Coincidentally it is just 1.5 blocks away from the house I purchased) only to once see a man in his recliner outside with beer in hand, another day a 4-wheeler in the front yard. This was probably not what I was looking for as neighbors. That house sat on the market for months after--I'm not sure if it was ever sold or just taken of the market, but I'm sure the neighbors had something to do with why the house wasn't selling.

8. No offer is too low--unless you find yourself in a bidding war. The first house that I was serious about, I called my dad right away to come look at it NOW. We called the Realtor and asked for an extension of our showing time, only to have the people who were renting the house walk through the door wanting to kick us out. After standing in the driveway mulling over what to do, I decided I was serious about this house and wanted to put an offer on it. My Realtor, myself and my mom drove back to the Realtor's office. While in the car my Realtor called the listing agent--and the listing agent said they had an offer on the table. My Realtor asked if they'd wait and we'd put in my offer. We wrote the offer--she hand delivered it and got to tell the seller all about my likeable qualities and how I really should be the one to get the house :)--and at 8:30 that night I found out I had just bought a house. The problem was, it really was more than I wanted to pay. The offer we put in was the asking price--$129,900. The house needed some work--new carpet, lots of paint and a whole new electrical system. The electrical was written into the purchase agreement that the seller would update it to code aswell as well as an I and I inspection. Anyways, my point is, because I felt the pressure that there was a deal on the table--I offered full price. Had I not, I probably would have lost the deal--and you know what? It would have been okay. If you're not willing to pay over a certain amount for a certain house--then don't offer that amount. Additionally, no offer is too low. If you get outbid in the process, it's really not meant to be. In the end I ended up not getting this house, for reasons I will state in #9. The second offer that I put on my house went much better. The asking price was $119,900--I offered $112,000 and made that offer based on the square footage. In the end we settled at $118,000--still more than I offered, but this was okay with me because I really felt that this house was worth it. It was in move-in condition and an excellent area.

9. Get a certified home inspection by a very reputable home inspector. My dad, a pretty handy man, didn't think a home inspection was necessary. After attending my FHB class and hearing the horror stories--I wanted an inspection for peace of mind. I am ever so thankful that I had an inspection on house #1. When I went to have it inspected, the inspector tore a panel off the basement wall only to find the whole wall, made of CINDER BLOCKS, caving in, to the point where he could take a brick out of the foundation. He also pointed out every little problem that may arise, such as wiring that had gone from the house to the garage, buried under the concrete driveway, that would eventually rot because it was not wrapped in conduit. Alas, when it came to having an estimate on the cost to repair the crumbling foundation, my inspector who just so HAPPENED to have his OWN side business in repairing foundation recommended that we use this special "stabling" method that ONLY HE DOES. This was a little shady, as this was not fixing the problem, but only stabilizing the wall. Needless to say the home inspection on house #2 was done by a different home inspector--who did an excellent job and didn't refer me to any of his services.

10. Don't be in a rush if you don't have to be. Take your time to do the research, keep looking at houses and make sure you even check out those that are for sale by owner!

Aphids

Back in April I bought a hibiscus tree that stands about 4.5 feet tall at Sam's Club. It was only $15.99, so I figured if I killed it while trying to emerge my inner green thumb, it wouldn't be a huge loss. Since April it's died and came back to life a few times, but I found out if I give it lots of water and lots of sunlight, just like the instructions say, it doesn't die! So since I had that revelation, I've coddled the blooming red hibiscus and made sure to prune off the dead leaves, give it plenty of water and keep it in the sunroom. The only thing that might have done harm in the sunroom, is the cholrine filled air from the hot tub in the room. Seemed to handle it just fine. I hadn't watered the plant since Friday because I was just so danged busy with working 30 hours on fri-sat-sun. Today I went to give it some water, and discovered some nasty green aphids covering two of my emerging buds. I put some dawn dish soap in a bottle and mixed it with water and was going to spray it on hibiscus. I dicded that maybe I should educate my self a bit, since my inner greenthumb has not fully emerged. I googled, "aphids on hibisucs" One website told me I needed to go find some imidacloprid and then get into my plant's roots before the aphids would settle in with their nasty black mold. Other sites told me chemical sprays can be harmful to hibiscuses. Then, there was this ingenious site that told me all I needed to do was give my hibiscus a shower. Well duh. Of course I should have thought of this. So I hauled the hibiscus out of the sunroom, set it in the front yard and sprayed it inside and out. Then I took the buds, held them in my hand and put the pressure washer setting on the hose and sprayed those little aphid buggers right off the buds. Hopefully this works for a little bit. I hope the hibiscus can make the move and survive in the new house!
I've blogged before in the past, but they all lasted about 2.5 days, and then I got sick of it. But yesterday at work I was reading an article in the news paper about a lady who started a blog about arts and crafts and it then turned into a blog about her soon to be ex husband, his affair and charges of molestation on their daughter. This blog really captured my attention as I read a while back in her posts. She is a great writer! I have no knack or talent for writing-- give me a math problem instead. But I thought, maybe if I had an audience that I was writing a blog to, like she does, I'll get into it. So I'm going to give this a shot, see how it goes, and hope that I don't abandon it after 3.5 days this time.


I was trying to figure out a catchy name for the blog... couldn't really think of much, so onto the URL. Well, I'm basically being torn between two states right now (mind you, they are only 15 miles apart, yet still, it's two states.) Live in one, work in the other. So I thought, WI and MN or... wimin! (like the word women?!) Then I stuck a little live in front of the wimin and came up with livinwimin... living in wi and mn, or living women, which ever you prefer. However, the more appropriate of the women one would be "living woman", because I am only one. So that's the story.

Quick intro; I lived in Minnesota for the first 18 years of my life moved to wisconsin for college, then last year came back to Minnesota to live, but got a job teaching in Wisconsin. Now just bought a house in Minnesota (close on 7-31, excited a bit much) but continue to work in Wisco once school starts up again in the fall. Minnesota Resident, Wisconsin Worker. Figure out that tax situation.

Speaking of house, I'm going to write the idiots guide to buying your first home because there have been too many things that I've learned that I never knew about until they blindsided me.

Anyways. The brother needs to be taken to the dentist and since the dad took away his car, that leaves the sister to bring him there.

Here's to making this last for more than 3.5 days. Cross your fingers and leave me a comment.